Repair your marriage that is on the brink...
» without wasting Precious time
» In the comfort of your own home
» with no need to hire a BABYSITTER
» at a time that works with your schedule
Sean and Mendy Ruthrauff
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"THE DEEP END"
Get started with our ebook that lists the top 5 things you can do for your struggling marriage!
what we do
We help transform dying relationships into ones that thrive. We were there ourselves and promise you, there is hope
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Couple watching video on laptop
Sean and Mendy talk with couple
Downloadable resources
Need tools and strategies for a struggling relationship? Whether you are both seeking help or just one of you,  check out our  ebook for helpful tips with actionable steps  regarding self care, boundaries, better communication, healthy emotions, and how to set proper expectations.
Video Curriculum
Gain access to a self-paced video study based on years of counseling experience, focusing on conflict resolution, improved communication, boundaries, fostering forgiveness and intimacy.  Utilizing worksheets following each module, couples are guided to apply concepts taught. 
Personal Coaching
If you are interested in a more interactive approach as you work towards a healthier relationship,  Sean has limited spaces for 1:1 online or in person appointments. 
Options include bi-weekly or weekly 90-minute appointments, multi-day marriage intensives, or a combination of these options. 
they said
Don't take our word for it.  Hear from others that have experienced their own breakthroughs and transformation.
Carissa 
Missouri
Their wise counsel has been integral in my life
I’ve come to realize that putting my thoughts of deepest gratitude of your time and talents into words is really hard! You and Sean are just simply the best. Using just a few words to describe that is hard…I want to use all of the words and then more! I am just entirely blessed God had our paths meet.
Kasey, K.
Texas
Saved my marriage. Highlight of what you loved...
Sean was a true blessing and saved our marriage from certain disaster after a lot of baggage and an affair . He has an awesome Christian simple approach to solving problems and went above and beyond anything my wife and I ever imagined. We are better than ever before thanks to Sean’s wisdom and willingness to see us through Thank you Sean
Josh and Amanda
Kansas
We are better than ever
Sean was a true blessing and saved our marriage from certain disaster after a lot of baggage and an affair . He has an awesome Christian simple approach to solving problems and went above and beyond anything my wife and I ever imagined. We are better than ever before thanks to Sean’s wisdom and willingness to see us through Thank you Sean
Kasey
Texas
Changed how I do life
I never imagined that I would live a life that would require a counselor in my phone contacts. I wasn’t even sure what good could come of talking with someone about my problems. But when my life fell apart, I experienced first hand the positive impact a trusted counselor can have in your life. 
Sean helped me to focus on what really matters. He encourages me to practice self care to be able to stay the course of healing. During this process, I have learned new skills that allow me to navigate daily life with more success. I have been able to improve how I communicate in my marriage and to realize that I matter in the relationship. 
Sean has truly changed how I do life. I appreciate what he and Mendy give of themselves to the counseling process.
meet sean and mendy
Everyone has a story... We certainly do. Maybe you have one too and you want things to get better. We're here to help.
On October of 2019 we will celebrate 25 years of marriage, but there was a time about 13 years ago, that we weren't sure that was going to happen. In fact our marriage burned to the ground. However, through the grace of God and through wise counsel and quite frankly a miracle, our marriage was restored. 

Because of the miracle that God did in our relationship, Sean had a total career change. He went back to school and became a marriage and family counselor with a Biblical foundation. Sean now works with marriages and individuals in crisis. 

Listen, we're coming to you from a place of experience in this area. Lots of experience. Our passion is to help people achieve the kind of marriage they dream of and we can help. 
Sean and Mendy
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